Financial Abuse is Fraud

Controlling the Finances Against the Will of Another is a Crime

© Karen Stephenson

Jun 30, 2009
Financial Abuse Can Split a Marriage, Morguefile.com
Financial abuse is another form of domestic abuse that affects not only the elderly, but it affects many people of all ages. This form of abuse can cause emotional harm.

Losing control of personal finances can be very traumatic for any individual regardless of age. There are no concrete statistics that can state how widespread this form of abuse is as this crime is generally unreported. Financial abuse is usually defined as either being denied access to all funds or being forced to manage all the family finances.

Elderly Financial Abuse

Most people will associate financial abuse with the elderly as this is most publicized. This abuse is sometimes referred to as material abuse, but no matter what phrase is used, it is a crime punishable by law. Often when seniors are financially exploited, they are subject to neglect, physical or psychological abuse.

Seniors with low literacy levels are vulnerable to financial abuse because they depend on those they trust to handle their finances, fill out forms or read government notices. Seniors who are older and those from ethnocultural groups may also be highly susceptible to financial abuse if they are isolated and lack English communication skills.

Financial Abuse in Marriage

Like financial abuse among the elderly, the victims of this crime are often victims of psychological abuse. Regardless, it is a form of mental abuse that causes emotional damage. Although some men are victims of financial abuse, information based from divorce cases and women's shelters tend to show that women more often than not are the victims.

Financial abuse, also referred to as economic abuse, can take many forms but the most commonly known form of abuse is designed to isolate a woman. Some women also are finding that their partner will absolve all financial responsibility leaving them in a “do or die” scenario: she has no option but to manage all financial matters otherwise the household will financially collapse. These women also experience some isolation as their partner will needlessly spend money when there are bills to pay, leaving the woman to desperate measures trying to make ends meet. In relationships where there are children, sometimes the woman will totally neglect herself to ensure that her children are not affected by her spouse's behavior.

The Buffalo News reported another aspect of financial abuse last year. A woman had discovered after her marriage ended that her husband had obtained bank loans, and abused credit cards. Divorce laws state that when a marriage ends, any assets that are accumulated during the marriage are divided equally, the same applies to any debts accumulated during the marriage.

Sometimes an abuser will control his partner's pay cheque, financial accounts or purchases. He can also destroy a credit rating by using the spouse's credit cards or putting bills (including utilities) in her name.

Signs of Financial Abuse

  • Controlling the finances.
  • Withholding money or credit cards.
  • Receiving an allowance.
  • Being held accountable for every penny spent.
  • Money being taken against the will.
  • Using the spouse's assets for personal benefit.
  • Withholding basic necessities.
  • Preventing a partner from working or choosing a career.
  • Sabotaging place of employment. (Forcing the partner to miss work or repeated calling to the place of employment, etc.)

Seeking help is important if there is any suspicion of financial abuse. In Canada, Broken Spirits Network is a comprehensive listing by area of hotlines to call. In the United States, 1-800-799-7233 is a nation-wide toll free number for the National Domestic Violence Hotline.

Further Reading:

Financial Abuse Among the Elderly


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Comments
Jun 30, 2009 10:22 PM
Guest :
My husband was egregiously financially abusive. I've only just separated from him after 30+ years. What is to be done about it? Will I be responsible for his debt?

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Sep 16, 2009 8:52 PM
Guest :
My issue is finacial abuse getting sewed for having a disability
and my spouse being narcissitic what legal action can I take now?
Oct 27, 2009 2:25 PM
Guest :
I am a victimn of financial, emotional and physical abuse. The financial and emotional is the most frightening and pervasive. Divorced now after thrity years I just learned my ex-hustand has initiated litigation against my employer. As a result, I have been terminated and facing unemployment in the worst economic times to experience same.....I lost all my gain in my occupation. I am a single mother looking for work to replace the income and benefits I brought to my children and my husband, who is unemployed. He loses the benefits too, but he knows I will fix it for myself and my children thus fixing it for him. I pray for freedom and the ability to support myself. It is frightening that a person would be so obsessed over you and need to control you so much they could kill you. Mine started with killing my reputation and other means, which did not work. Moved on to destroying my livelihood. I was forced to keep things together in our marriage financially, but it was for naught as he used up all of what we had and then topped it off with an affair. I left, but it is not reallyl possible to leave them is it?
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