Abuse

» n0vyf - I think I am going crazy.

I have been married to my wife for 13 years. She always had an explosive temper, but in the last couple of years or so she became abusive towards me mostly, then when I would ask her to talk to me when she cooled down, she would say "there is nothing to talk about" or "it is my problem and I will deal with it". I tried to tell her it was not just her problem, but our problem. I offered to go to councling with her, but got the "its my problem and I will deal with it" lecture. On 1July06 I left and moved 500 miles away. I have the support of someone special to me now, but somehow I feel the urge to go back. Logic says stay put, that if I go back, it will start up again after a while. Why do I have the feeling to leave something that, if I would have found it 15 years ago, I would have been the happiest man on earth to go back to hell again??

-- posted by n0vyf