Abuse

» Silkenfire - childhood abuse

I hope that by reading your own words, you can see that you have not only recognized the elephant in your living room but moved him over to where he belongs. Getting healthy after having your most sacred trust defiled during a critical time of growth in your life... is a process. There is no quick fix. When you come to peace with that fact, you will be okay with knowing that every day of your life will be one step closer to wellness. Each time you are there for your child in the ways that you know you must be, your self-esteem will grow. The unconditional love your baby has for you will also enhance your self-esteem. You are no longer a vulnerable helpless child... You are about to become someone a lil person NEEDS to depend on and you need your "adult" self to step forward and manage those bad feelings when they happen.. and they will happen... but each time you recognize them and you win, you are gaining in strength and trust. If you want to be a good Mom, you will be.. Be strong... Silken

-- posted by Silkenfire