Abuse

» sweetgrass - verbal abuse!!!

In response to verbal abuse!!! posted by liza3:

Dear Liza,
It does not sound like things are going very well and once a relationship starts to deteriorate in that way, it is usually more of the same and worse. sometimes we hope it will change. if there is any possible way you can get out of this relationship now and still find happiness, i would strongly recommend you do so. you are still young and you have a future, can meet different kinds of people and learn and grow as a woman. The thing that is so hard is if we get too attached to a man that is not good for us. Then it is so hard to get out, it is so hard to get that person out of our mind and emotions and it becomes like a sickness. Being involved with someone that is wrong for you can affect your life in such a negative way. That is the pain I feel. I have been 3 years with a man that is not good for me and making myself get out seems to be harder than I know what to do with. It has hurt me so much. I am not really sure if I will ever recover even if I can part ways with him. That is why I hope you will keep a high standard for yourself as far as the way you are treated. Sometimes, we get what we are willing to settle for. Please make a wise choice. I wish I were young like you and could make better choices for myself. It really is a big deal who you get involved with.

-- posted by sweetgrass