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» carson5493 - My son is a narcissist

In response to My son is a narcissist posted by sienna1942:

For the past 9 months our family's lives have been upheaveled.(sp?) My 19 year old daughter has decided she couldn't live with the expectations I had in this house. i.e. Reasonable curfew, keep a job, pay for your car in return for free home, food, clothing etc. She wanted to be with controlling, manipulative (year her jr) boyfriend 24/7. (If there were more hrs. in the day they'd have been together then too.) During this time she was put on probation at comm. college and failed to follow their rules, then failed all her classes. She quit making car payments, moved out to live with H.S. friend to whom she totally portrayed herself as the victim. (Poor her, she was expected to follow same "rules" her older & younger siblings did, thank God up till today they're fine.) So for 9 months I have had next to NO contact with her. I love her, but she thinks love is getting what she wants. I am terrified of what her life away from home is like, the not knowing is the scariest part. She had been pretty sheltered till she "left." The only contact she's had w/ me is to ask for her car. (She left w/ the understanding that the car would stay.) She knew she was cutting off all contact with me, her dad & siblings when she left. This has been the hardest thing to live through & I've been through some stuff. Good luck to you, I know how it feels.

-- posted by carson5493