Abuse

» janeyip - leaving mum

I came from an emotionally, mentally and physically abusive family. Both my parents were abusive in their own ways. Although I left home 20 years ago, I still struggle with issues of self confidence and trust of others. I have done very well academically obtaining the highest qualification, function well in my job and have a rosy future. However I still feel enourmous pain inside. Recently I decided to stop talking to my mother because she still tries to control me and have tried for decades to break up my bond with my brother- with some success lately. I would like to come to a place of peace and wipe the slate clean to start all over again. None of my friends understand my predicament because I look successful on the outside and hide my feelings well. I feel very alone. Any ideas?

-- posted by janeyip