Abuse

» maj04 - Women who use claims of "ABUSE"

First off I will tell you that I am a woman, I am very sympathetic to women who are abused. But I have a situation that is infuriating to me, women who use,make-up and exaggerate claims of abuse to hurt their spouse or to keep the father of their children away from their children. As soon as abuse is claimed it is a stigmatism that the man has to defend even without any proof, the court and society believes the female. The children are not well taken care of in many instances and the mother does not want the children she just does not want the father to have them, the mother is mentally ill and there is nothing that can be done to get the children out of this environment. Has anyone heard of "Abuse" being used this way? and Any suggestions that you may have to help my friend out in this situation?

-- posted by maj04