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» sktjapan2003 - my sons father (not husband) very abusive,yet getting away

In response to my sons father (not husband) very abusive,yet getting away posted by haajin123:

My heart went out to you when I read your post. Although some days you may feel like you can't go on...you have to for your son. You have to be the one (since his father isn't) to show and teach him how to be loving, caring, and show self control so he won't treat other women or YOU like that when he's older. His father is teaching him the opposite. Remember, as a Christian, it doesn't mean that all your problems go away. It means that you don't have to figure your problems out by yourself anymore. You are allowed to cast all you fears, worries, and burdons to Jesus. Ask the Lord for strength when you need it. YOU just do your very best as a mom and let the Lord handle the rest. He'll handle it...I promise you. As far as your ex-husband, don't worry about him anymore either. The consequences he'll receive from the Lord are much worse than what you could ever do. Try to just keep peace...you have to do what's best for your son. I know I sound like a "bible thumper"...I'm really not. I'm just convinced (from personal experience) that "He" is the only way to find true peace and joy. Hang in there!

-- posted by sktjapan2003