Abuse

» mandy38 - To All Of You

Mandy38 back again. I am certainly no expert in the field of MEN but I posted something before and I don't know if you ladies are reading it or what.
Listen, everytime I hear someone say they don't know if they can leave or stay strong or cope with the abuser, I just don't know what to think. Ladies, you SHOULD NOT put up with nor should you put your kids through this kind of hell. It's not fair to either of you.
YOU can't change the way another person treats you. That is THEIR decision. And if you are getting verbally, mentally or especially physically abused....GET OUT.
I think that so many women feel like they don't want to tackle the world alone. There's other fish in the sea.
All of you deserve SO MUCH MORE than what you are having to deal with. I too, was abused in every way. I just left my husband in October and for the first time, HE IS KISSING MY BUTT. I have the upperhand for the first time in the 4 years we were married. Trust me once you aren't there.....they wake up real quick.
Good luck to all of you, I'll be praying.
Mandy38

-- posted by mandy38