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» stress30 - To All Of You

In response to To All Of You posted by mandy38:

Hey, last night I was cleaning out some stuff in the old computer room which is going to be thew new kids room,(i'm due next month) and i found where my husband had ripped up our marriage certificate and destroyed our sons birth certificate and paper that had his birth foot prints from the hospital. He crossed out his name and put my maiden name because "if I divorce him, he doesn't want his name on the birth certificate because he will no longer be his father". What the heck does that mean?????????? He always says that If i leave I am a coldhearted feminazi who would take kids away from him because in his eyes, he doesn't believe in being in their lives anymore since "he is not the father anymore". He will have a new family to take care of and he wouldn't have time to take care of "my" kids. He also said he wouldn't be my "babysitter". I have to get a storage space just to put valuable thigns in because every time we fight, he destroys somethign invaluable. I can't have pictures in the house of anyone, he has destroyed numerous ones,cards, papers, I just don't know how I am going to do it or when I will get the nerve to do it but he is crazy and is someone i cannot reason with AT ALL. Occasional clarity is all I get.

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