Abuse

» ttots5 - What constitutes sexual abuse?

If you tell your husabd there is a certain sex act you NEVER want performed on you and he does it any way is that abuse?

-- posted by ttots5

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» Fantasia78 - What constitutes sexual abuse?

In response to What constitutes sexual abuse? posted by ttots5:

I can't say i'm an expert at defining abuse, but I would say it's an extreme breach of trust and respect. If you feel that strongly about it, I wouldn't let him do it again, and outline the consequences that would happen if he does.

-- posted by Fantasia78

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» maxine19 - What constitutes sexual abuse?

In response to What constitutes sexual abuse? posted by ttots5:

Hell yeah that's abuse.

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» ajmsoul - What constitutes sexual abuse?

In response to What constitutes sexual abuse? posted by ttots5:

Hi there, ttots5,

Yes. It is a boundary cross to say the very least. Your body is yours. You are the one that gets to decide what you do or do not want - not anyone else.

If your husband cannot respect your boundaries, generally, and specifically in this area, then you are not safe to be with him right now.

You need to make sure that you are heard and to know that you have every right to be safe from any and all unwanted sexual advances.

What you describe your husband has done, is abusive. It is a violation of your stated boundaries, your body, and your trust.

If he doesn't understand this he needs to get professional help.

Take care of you,
A.J.

-- posted by ajmsoul

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