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» lewis41 - Manipulation in lesbian relationships

My lover doesn't know how to handle her ex-husband. He calls her all times of the night and play guilt games with her using the children as leveage. She then turns to me for support and understanding when she allows this type of thing to go on. She always threaten me with going on her own or leaving me because I'm getting tired of her issues. She know that I love her very much, but the same things alway happen with her when she speak with her husband about the children and I have to take the real verbal from her when she need to give it to her husband. She make me feel as if she's afraid to face him or stand up to him, but when it comes to me, she can say things that hurt, but I suppose to understand and be supportive.

-- posted by lewis41