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» ajmsoul - Manipulation in lesbian relationships

In response to Manipulation in lesbian relationships posted by lewis41:

Hi lewis41,

I'm a little confused. Do you feel that your lover's ex is manipulating her or that your lover is manipulation you (or both?)

It sounds as if your lover's ex is using inappropriate control around the children with another agenda and that would be both manipulating and abusive.

It would seem to me that if you lover isn't choosing to or able to set better boundaries with her ex that you may have to set some boundaries where this issues is concerned between you and your lover so that you two do not see divisive issues that could threten your relationship.

Have you asked your lover to think about getting some professional guidance as to what to do with this situation?

A.J.

-- posted by ajmsoul