Verbal Abuse - The Effects

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1.   Jan 19, 2007 10:40 AM

» Lotta1003 - Recognizing I was in verbally abusive relationship

In response to Recognizing I was in verbally abusive relationship posted by iamback:


Dear iamback,

I was touched by what you wrote. My situation is similar. I am not yet divorced, I am still living with him as well. So you know, that there is a lot for me to do and how hard it is.
I have a question: you wrote your husband didn't work for over 2 years. Neither has mine. I am interested in hearing how you think this fits in with the verbal and controlling behaviour. I am out of my mind that he tells me he is looking for a job, but I do not see anything happening. My husband is well educated. This is a major, major problem in our relationship and he refuses to discuss the effects of this, with me.
He gets angry, walks away and just ends the discussion. Is he doing this to control the situation - if so - in what way? Lotta

-- posted by Lotta1003


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