Abuse

» ajmsoul - He said its not Verbal Abuse then what is it?

Hi Marinda,

I did just see your email and reply to it today. Sorry about the wait, I get a tremndous amount of email.

As I said to you in my email response what you describe is abuse. I think that you will benefit most now from focusing on what you need to do to keep your daughter and you safe.

What matters most right now isn't why he is doing what he does - what matters most now is the safety and sanity of you and your daughter.

Please talk to a trusted friend, or a minister and seek professional support from a counsellor.

Take care of you and your daughter first and make sure to do this with professional counselling and support because you need to develop a safety plan and do not talk to your abuser about any thoughts you may have about leaving. That would not be a safe thing to do.

A.J.

-- posted by ajmsoul