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» leila1030 - Scared to leave, Scared to stay
In response to Scared to leave, Scared to stay posted by magictouch:
Thank you both so much for sharing your stories with me. It has really helped. I have been in such turmoil. I question myself all the time. I was truly starting to believe that I was always wrong and he was always right. He is a great talker and can manipulate any situation. He calls me selfish whenever I'm not appeasing him. I can see now that he is the selfish one...the one with the problem......NOT ME! I am going to begin the process to get out of it. I know that it may take awhile, and that's ok. I need to (for lack of a better term) get my ducks in a row before I make a move. I'm a little scared of what he'll do when I leave, but I can't worry about that. I have to focus on ME for a change! My heart will break, but I now realize that my broken heart will mend. I would rather have a broken heart that will heal than a lifetime of living like this!
You are both courageous and strong!! I commend you on your decisions!!
Thanks again!!!!!!!!!!!!
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