Abuse

» magictouch - Help With Ideas to fight

:), I smiled when I read your post because I felt just the way too. I thought something was wrong with me to still love such a person and to begin with be attracted to such an individual.

You are not alone.

Well done with expressing your feelings so well and writing them down here, Thank you for sharing.
Though I am not in contact with him anymore, reading your post gave me a boost a strength.

I also felt like I invested my whole self into a lie, and until today, there are times when I wonder if any of time I spent with him was REAL. Now I can only answer for myself, I know my love was REAL.

I also felt like I would be alone for the rest of my life, but after reading more about verbal abusers, I learnt that this is exactly what verbal abusers are set out to make you feel - that there is no way out of the relationship.

Because they have ripped your soul off its self esteem, you feel the way you do.You feel like no one will ever love you again.These are just seeds that the verbal abuser plants in your head to ensure he has full control over.

Deep down inside, that confident, beautiful, intelligent woman still lives inside you and is waiting to come out again, but she is too afraid, because someone told her to KEEP SHUT!

The reason why I know that confident lady still exist in you is because you just wrote a lovely post that indirectly said 'I DESERVE BETTER'.

You invested your life into helping someone that you loved very dearly, believing against all odds that you could make a difference.However, the sad truth is, you did not cause it, that is why you cannot fix it.

Stay close to loved one's and good friends.
My best goes out to you, good things come to those who wait.

You DESERVE to be HAPPY.:)

magictouch

-- posted by magictouch