Abuse

» Marinda20 - Can Abuse be cured?

Thank you for you letter. I told him in the beginning of February that i'm leaving as you know he made my life hell. Asking question over and over. That he feals sorry for me. With this guy you cant tell him the truth you must change your words sothat it sounds like your the fault and to blame. I was the one that abandoned him and i am the one that pushed him away. You can not talk to him because he doesn't hear you and he only hears when he sais something he wants to hear. I get exstremely frustrated. for two days he ignored me completely and when i told him about it he asked me what my problem is. Every day when i come home the depression and stress takes over. My body is tired. I don't eat very much and my wait has drop exstremely. The saddest thing of all is that i told him about a situation that happend to me when i was young and i trusted him with it. After i told him that i was leaving he called my parents ugly names and he used that thing that i trusted him with and i threw that in my face just to come later and say i am sooooo sorry. He is so nice towards his friends noby suspect what he is doing to us when the door closes. He also told me that i can not say he is abusing me because it is medical related and he can not help it. I am very scared of him and what he can do to us. When he yelled at my daughter for something se did not do that he did, he went upstairs phoned his mom and told her that he feals like killing somebody right now, because this F** people is breaking my stuff. His parents told him that they do not want to get involved but its there son! My sister and her boyfriend is going to help me move my stuff. I know after this i will get better and stronger again and be happy again. I mis my old self.
Thank you for listening to me and your support, i appreciate it very much.

-- posted by Marinda20