Abuse

» settler - WHY DOES HE DO THAT AND WHY DOES HE NOT ADMIT IT IS HIS FAULT

Thanks for mentioning the guys! I feel very lost and out on a limb on my own. I talked to a lawyer and since nothing can be proven everything is equal and the courts will divid everything fifty fifty. Truthfully most of the stuff I would leave with her and am just fine with that I never cared about it, but the kids are still up in the air and she won't leave them. I don't want to leave them in this situation, but I am going to get out and hopefuly I can take the kids and if not I will do as much for them as I can when I have them.

I have also found a place called hopes door (An abuse crisis center) and am getting some help, but feel just as lose. There is still no way to get threw to her or a court about what she is like.

-- posted by settler